I actually managed to put Karen Vail aside and read something else on my shelf. Something educational to boot! Autism-Asperger's & Sexuality: Puberty and Beyond by Jerry and Mary Newport. A necessary read in my line of work. And an excellent read at that. Written by a married couple, both on the spectrum. A clear, simple explanation of necessary facts. Highly recommended for those on the spectrum or who have a loved one on the spectrum. Two thumbs up!